In a 24 hour period, newborn babies generally sleep for 16 to 18 hours, and this happens at regular intervals during the day and night.
By 3 months of age, with development of the brain, sleep patterns will generally become more predictable with most of the sleep occurring at night, and then 2 to 3 naps during the day.
The pattern of napping usually includes a morning, afternoon and early evening nap. Always remember, all babies are different and as such there is quite a variation in the napping patterns of babies. Some babies will not sleep much at all during the day.
From 3 months onwards your baby can stay awake longer during the day, with periods of wakefulness lasting anywhere between 2 to 4 hours.
Baby sleep
The following is a guide as to how much sleep your baby should be having:
Newborn
Number of sleeps per day | 4 |
Average time up during the day between sleeps | 1 hour |
Time it may take to settle | 15 minutes |
Newborns will be asleep 16 to 18 hours per day
They will sleep for 1 to 3 hours at a time
Anything less than 1 hour is called a catnap or a power nap
It is expected for baby to wake overnight for a feed
3 to 6 months
Number of sleeps per day | 2 to 3 |
Average time up during the day between sleeps | 2 to 3 hours |
Time it may take to settle | 1 hour |
Will sleep for 2 to 3 hours at a time
Will sleep 6 to 8 hours overnight
6 to 9 months
Number of sleeps per day | 2 |
Average time up during the day between sleeps | 2 to 3 hours |
Time it may take to settle | 1 hour |
Will sleep for 1 to 2 hours at a time
Will sleep 10 to 12 hours overnight
9 to 12 months
Number of sleeps per day | 1 to 2 |
Average time up during the day between sleeps | 4 hours |
Time it may take to settle | 1 hour |
Will sleep for 1 hour in the morning and 1 hour in the afternoon
Will sleep 10 to 12 hours overnight
Why some babies have trouble sleeping
We all sleep in cycles consisting of blocks of:
Light sleep and
Deep sleep, where we wake and are able to resettle ourselves
Babies that have trouble sleeping are generally unable to resettle themselves after waking from a deep sleep. This will almost always occur because of the way they have been put down to sleep to begin with.
Babies can be put to sleep a number of different ways.
They can be placed in their cots awake and allowed to fall asleep by themselves.
We can rock them to sleep in our arms, allow them to fall asleep at the breast, rock them in the pram, or have them fall asleep in mom’s bed.
In these situations, once the baby goes off to sleep they are transferred into their cot. They then wake with a fright not knowing where mom and the rocking have gone to. Imagine yourself being all cosy in your own bed and you wake up and you’re sitting in the bathtub, you’d get a bit of a fright too.
At about 8 months old a baby’s sleep cycle changes to around 60 minutes. They also experience what we call separation anxiety, where if mom is not around they become quite anxious.
If these babies are being rocked off to sleep in mom’s arms and resettled sleeping into the cot, they will wake up in 1 hour’s time, with a huge fright because mom is not there. They cry out, mom goes back into the room and, not knowing any other way of resettling the baby, will pick them up, rock them back off to sleep, and put them back into the cot. These become bad habits and they are called sleep associations.
Routine
A regular routine is the surest way to get a baby or toddler to sleep independently. Babies respond well to a familiar pattern of events, and sleeping in the same environment each night offers them a sense of security and comfort.
Establishing a bedtime routine will not only benefit your child, but also you and your partner. A good night’s sleep works wonders for tired parents, and allowing yourselves a bit of ‘quiet adult time’ together at the end of the day will be just as beneficial to your relationship.
You can begin to establish a routine as soon as you bring your newborn home from the hospital. It is important to encourage a pattern with your newborn. This in turn will become a routine, and babies learn from repetition. Keep in mind that it only takes 3 days to create a habit.
When bringing a newborn home, it is very easy to get into the habit of passing baby around from visitor to visitor, as everyone wants a cuddle. If your baby is obviously in need of some sleep, or sleeping in their arms, encourage your family or friends to watch how you settle them into their cot, rather than rudely whipping baby away from them. After all, they could be potential baby sitters in the near future and wouldn’t it be great if they already could settle baby off to sleep!
The best way to establish a routine is using the Feed / Play / Sleep method
During the day when baby wakes, first feed them and then place your baby on the floor for some playtime. The age of your baby will determine how long they will play before showing tired signs. Watch for the tired signs and then act on them by implementing the settling techniques.
In the evening, after dinner or a feed, replace play time with a relaxing bath. Have some cuddling time and perhaps a story or two. Massaging your baby with baby lotion can also be very useful for relaxing your baby. Never over-stimulate your child before bedtime or think that the longer you keep them up, the more tired they will become and the easier it will be to get them off to sleep. An overtired baby is always harder to settle.
